Sunday, December 23, 2012
到此為止
我們
不能知道每個人的所有事
我也不會知道她的事 也不會故意探究追問
但我看到的 卻是一個天真女孩
不懂太多人情世故 只懂全情投入去愛
但最後 卻換來遍體鱗傷
旁人 也不能跟她說甚麼打氣說話
畢竟人 是須要獨去成長
旁人的說話 只是輔助 有時甚至乎是贈慶
.........................
成長
是需要勇氣
也得忘記過去..
首先是要把眼淚收起
洗個臉
跟自己和他說一聲
"好了 就這樣吧 到此為止" ...
我真的能吗？？？我可以吗？？？
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好好分開應要淡忘 你找到你伴侶
重臨舊情境 我卻哭得出眼淚
時常在聯想 你會溫馨的抱她午睡
然而自己現在沒任何權利 再抱怨一句
我再沒勇氣向你講舊時 沒有勇氣相愛另一次
為你將睡眠忘記 通宵傾談但已經頓成往事
還是記起 無道理的對罵是年紀小的不智
今天你能忘記 只得我懷念多麼諷刺
輾轉反側將愛活埋 要把你印象減退
重提舊人物 我卻開心得帶恐懼
年月是流水 我也相識一個成長伴侶
殘酷或許是對象面形容貌 也似你少許
我再沒勇氣向你講舊時 沒有勇氣相愛另一次
為你將睡眠忘記 通宵傾談但已經頓成往事
還是記起 無道理的對罵是年紀小的不智
今天你能忘記 只得我懷念多麼諷刺
如何逃避這戀愛故事 仍然說得多細緻
重覆的震撼 餘震未停止
我再沒勇氣向你講舊時 沒有勇氣相愛另一次
為你將睡眠忘記 通宵傾談但已經頓成往事
還是記起 無道理的對罵是年紀小的不智
今天再回頭看 這一個男孩子
我怕面對你說到生活時 後悔過往的幼稚爭議
沒你的動人時節 喧譁歡騰亦已經並無意義
閒話到此 遺憾到此結論是回憶總要到此
雖則你難忘記 這戀愛遺物終需棄置
再好好過日子
。。。。。。
GEUMANHAE!!
D DD DD DD D
D DD DD DD D
Stop it, stop it, please
Talk that talk that talk that
Talk that talk that talk that
How could you do this?
I am hurting so much like this
Do you even think of me?
Am I easy to you?
Yes, I’ll listen, although it’ll be all lies
Yes, I’ll smile, just like all the girls you played with
* (Talk that) Keep saying those ridiculous words
(Talk that) But don’t think that I’ll believe you
(Talk that) Because everything you say is a lie
(Talk that) Tell me the truth
(Talk that) Stop playing with me
(Talk that) Everything you tell me seems like a lie
Talk that talk that talk that
Talk that talk that talk that
From the start, it was all lies
Don’t tell me that you were telling the truth
Now it’s hard for me to believe you
Am I that easy to you?
Yes, I’ll listen, although I already know your excuses
Yes, I’ll smile, now please go away, I won’t care anymore
* Repeat
You tell me again but I don’t wanna listen, just stop it all
Don’t say my name
Don’t say my name
Don’t say my name
Talk that talk that talk that
Talk that talk that talk that please
* Repeat
Talk that talk that talk that
Talk that talk that talk that
English translated: pop!gasa
am i being so easy to you????
Saturday, December 8, 2012
why?
i promise myself to treat myself better.. to forget you, to not thinking bout u and to try to accept other people into my life...
and like u requested, i starts to avoid you...
i did... i mix with others, i accept other people,
and i started to accept another guy...
but why i could not find the same feeling i had with you?
why memories come back is only bout me and you?
u asked me to help u to prepare food.. i knew im sick, i knew i could have say no, i knew i should have to reject u saying im sick...
but why at that time without thinking despite the cough and blank mind,i immediately agreed to?? and why even that, i could be so happy????
at top of all, why after all, i still miss you???
did i really love u that deep???
is it so hard to forget someone who shared so much of memories???
how long still will it takes???
im still curious..
did u share the same feeling like i do????
and like u requested, i starts to avoid you...
i did... i mix with others, i accept other people,
and i started to accept another guy...
but why i could not find the same feeling i had with you?
why memories come back is only bout me and you?
u asked me to help u to prepare food.. i knew im sick, i knew i could have say no, i knew i should have to reject u saying im sick...
but why at that time without thinking despite the cough and blank mind,i immediately agreed to?? and why even that, i could be so happy????
at top of all, why after all, i still miss you???
did i really love u that deep???
is it so hard to forget someone who shared so much of memories???
how long still will it takes???
im still curious..
did u share the same feeling like i do????
Friday, November 23, 2012
mind game
mind game...
is it so fun?? isnt it tiring.. guessing each and every thing a person trying to do/ say...
even guessing what one going to say... why breaking such an excitement??
are u indicating "wait for you" by elliot yamin ..
or
separate lives by phil collins
i dont know.. i have no idea what is happening around me..
it is so confusing... i am so confused...
should i really confront u... and tell u what i really feel???
should i hold on still....
or
should i just let off??
i admit... i still miss you~ i really do!!!
Saturday, November 17, 2012
anyeong sarang anyeong
from the start i took up the courage to love you....
then i took in my stubborn in holding on to the love i never see a future...
i become coward in not letting it off...
today i took back my courage and decide to let it off...
i am proud of myself... ^^
.............
so this is how i will feel??
so this is how one felt when they had a taste of freedom???
no wonder i always find a a big place with no ends calming.. like the wide blue sea and a green big field... it is always so calming just by looking to it...
probably it is just part of me, part of me who restricts myself...
a part of me who cries for freedom...
by looking to the wide place, where there is unlimited freedom,something i always want, something i always scared to have it...
thanks for giving me a taste of freedom.. so this is how it feels like...
i shall never forget how it feels like... :D
then i took in my stubborn in holding on to the love i never see a future...
i become coward in not letting it off...
today i took back my courage and decide to let it off...
i am proud of myself... ^^
.............
so this is how i will feel??
so this is how one felt when they had a taste of freedom???
no wonder i always find a a big place with no ends calming.. like the wide blue sea and a green big field... it is always so calming just by looking to it...
probably it is just part of me, part of me who restricts myself...
a part of me who cries for freedom...
by looking to the wide place, where there is unlimited freedom,something i always want, something i always scared to have it...
thanks for giving me a taste of freedom.. so this is how it feels like...
i shall never forget how it feels like... :D
Sunday, October 28, 2012
to forget
how many of us could actually forget someone easily?? especially that person had so many memories and so much things to remind us about his presence...
how could i forgive u who gave me so much to be remembered in a first place...
how could i give up when my heart wouldnt even want to give up..
i had logically told myself enough is enough..after everything, wouldnt dignity could have save me from hell??? how could i fell even deeper into those loop hole???
after what had happen, after all those tears, why would i still not wake up from what could happen... isnt it obvious that this again an one-sided love... why would i be so stupid to be in such situation...
....... now i would tell why.....
how could i forget someone who shares so much memories.. every corner of my life for the last 2 years had filled with a memory between us...
how could i forget him when he has appeared again and again in front of me.. who had faced me everyday...
how could i forget him when every time i tried not to be with him, he had comeback to gain attention.. either a lame joke, a funny expression or a weird question...
how could i forget him when even my facebook chat list had his name on, either online or offline.. his name is always there for god-know-what-reason.. he is not listed as my close friend, i didnt message him so much.. others would disappear when they offline.. some never been into that column.. how could his name forever be at there.. i never pin his name there.. even facebook bullied me~ :(
how could i forget him....
i hate how i had look at things that happen.. i hate myself for finding reason to forgive him each and every time.. how could i blame myself for everything that had happen... if a guy loves u so much, would he actually walk away and come like that... someone say it is hard to understand a women's heart... it is also hard to know men's sincerity... am i not being obvious that i had fall for him?? or that i am being inobvious that he is trying not to fall for me in order to protect himself...
or am i being obvious that i fall for him.. and he did that so that i dont fall for him anymore??
either of it...i guess the latter had more probability than the former... but one thing for sure, as long as he is still in my mind, how could i ever receive another guy in my life... till when, such a life would end??? it is killing me slowly from within... it is easy for people to say give up.. how could i, when my life is still full of him... it is easy to say stop, give up!! enough is enough.. bt how could u forget someone who had give so much in your life... now i understand why sometimes, even in hell, some wife still stay with their husband and children when they could afford to walk away~
how could i forgive u who gave me so much to be remembered in a first place...
how could i give up when my heart wouldnt even want to give up..
i had logically told myself enough is enough..after everything, wouldnt dignity could have save me from hell??? how could i fell even deeper into those loop hole???
after what had happen, after all those tears, why would i still not wake up from what could happen... isnt it obvious that this again an one-sided love... why would i be so stupid to be in such situation...
....... now i would tell why.....
how could i forget someone who shares so much memories.. every corner of my life for the last 2 years had filled with a memory between us...
how could i forget him when he has appeared again and again in front of me.. who had faced me everyday...
how could i forget him when every time i tried not to be with him, he had comeback to gain attention.. either a lame joke, a funny expression or a weird question...
how could i forget him when even my facebook chat list had his name on, either online or offline.. his name is always there for god-know-what-reason.. he is not listed as my close friend, i didnt message him so much.. others would disappear when they offline.. some never been into that column.. how could his name forever be at there.. i never pin his name there.. even facebook bullied me~ :(
how could i forget him....
i hate how i had look at things that happen.. i hate myself for finding reason to forgive him each and every time.. how could i blame myself for everything that had happen... if a guy loves u so much, would he actually walk away and come like that... someone say it is hard to understand a women's heart... it is also hard to know men's sincerity... am i not being obvious that i had fall for him?? or that i am being inobvious that he is trying not to fall for me in order to protect himself...
or am i being obvious that i fall for him.. and he did that so that i dont fall for him anymore??
either of it...i guess the latter had more probability than the former... but one thing for sure, as long as he is still in my mind, how could i ever receive another guy in my life... till when, such a life would end??? it is killing me slowly from within... it is easy for people to say give up.. how could i, when my life is still full of him... it is easy to say stop, give up!! enough is enough.. bt how could u forget someone who had give so much in your life... now i understand why sometimes, even in hell, some wife still stay with their husband and children when they could afford to walk away~
Wednesday, October 17, 2012
Biased
i had so much to say but each and everytime i get to say it, or even to type it here
i become tongue-tight..
in this friendship, can i still hold on??
should i still hold on???
should i still find myself a reason to stay???
a reason for myself to call a friend a friend????
does this heartache mean i still care for this friendship????
i am confused...if being in as friend hurts me so much, why is it still called friend??
if within friends, grouping happen, isolation happen.. is this still call friends??
being outcast twice in a relationship, why cant i still learn to heal my own heartache???
......
conclusion : i am dumb!
i become tongue-tight..
in this friendship, can i still hold on??
should i still hold on???
should i still find myself a reason to stay???
a reason for myself to call a friend a friend????
does this heartache mean i still care for this friendship????
i am confused...if being in as friend hurts me so much, why is it still called friend??
if within friends, grouping happen, isolation happen.. is this still call friends??
being outcast twice in a relationship, why cant i still learn to heal my own heartache???
......
conclusion : i am dumb!
Friday, October 12, 2012
夜夜夜夜
the lyrics...
you dont even try to explain everything to me... you dont even try to force yourself to lie a single word...
i should have wake up... i should have seen the difference..
i should have stop myself from the unrealistic dream... who am i making myself into...
sorry to myself.. wait, i dont even deserved that sorry from myself..
who am i now?? i wonder...
somewhere along someone conversation... that line, makes me wonder...
i am.... what had been said~ i am...
a dumb
Saturday, October 6, 2012
幼稚完
u say i always misinterpret what u feel...
misinterpret what you say...
misunderstood u...
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i promise myself, after this month..
if there is nothing else from you... i promise to be good to myself..
i will be better... i am sure~ :D
Saturday, September 1, 2012
we...
listening to Junsu Uncommitted...
the first phrase :
It was all a dream
Reality was far from
the safe picture she painted for me
She told me I was the one and I believed
until the dream dissipated so suddenly
a dream, a reality... i used to say i had to dream of reality because how reality be is how we want it to be...
we work for our dream, to make it a reality... a dream come true as long as i believe..
what define a dream?
what define a reality?
it would be a lie that i dont felt a thing..
after each and everything that had happen, for each and everything that had turn memories, if i would say i dont felt a thing, it's a lie... a big lie that i said to make life easier for everyone...
probably im the only one... maybe i think so much of the unreal..
to believe i could create a dream.. to create an inception
is it possible???
will it be possible???
i lied to myself everyday.. every single morning is a dream i create for myself to lessen those heartache..
every single morning i just wanna hid inside... to hid myself from every sunlight..
i get myself a list of excuses, a list of lies... hypnotized myself...
wake up and face the world with a smile... end the day and to get up the next day with a brand new lie...
sooner or later i might be a better actress than some malaysian actress.. =)
the first phrase :
It was all a dream
Reality was far from
the safe picture she painted for me
She told me I was the one and I believed
until the dream dissipated so suddenly
a dream, a reality... i used to say i had to dream of reality because how reality be is how we want it to be...
we work for our dream, to make it a reality... a dream come true as long as i believe..
what define a dream?
what define a reality?
it would be a lie that i dont felt a thing..
after each and everything that had happen, for each and everything that had turn memories, if i would say i dont felt a thing, it's a lie... a big lie that i said to make life easier for everyone...
probably im the only one... maybe i think so much of the unreal..
to believe i could create a dream.. to create an inception
is it possible???
will it be possible???
i lied to myself everyday.. every single morning is a dream i create for myself to lessen those heartache..
every single morning i just wanna hid inside... to hid myself from every sunlight..
i get myself a list of excuses, a list of lies... hypnotized myself...
wake up and face the world with a smile... end the day and to get up the next day with a brand new lie...
sooner or later i might be a better actress than some malaysian actress.. =)
Thursday, August 30, 2012
could it be?
i am a dreamer...
a sentence i never want to deny... i admit that i am a big dreamer.. i dream on everything and i see things so magically and mysteriously, i live just a life like that.. a naive thinking?? or probably an empty minded.. a real empty skull... just like my mum said.. you are a dumb at times...
i do agree.. i am a dumb not at times but for most of the times.. to think bout how dumb i could be... life just had to move on...
since u know im a dreamer, why do u even start initiating my dreaming point??? o.O
if i am a dreamer like that and u knew it, why dont just stop me from dreaming?? instead of letting me move on to stage 3 then 4 and then REM...
i had been in REM sleep too long... it's about time, to wake up~~
a sentence i never want to deny... i admit that i am a big dreamer.. i dream on everything and i see things so magically and mysteriously, i live just a life like that.. a naive thinking?? or probably an empty minded.. a real empty skull... just like my mum said.. you are a dumb at times...
i do agree.. i am a dumb not at times but for most of the times.. to think bout how dumb i could be... life just had to move on...
since u know im a dreamer, why do u even start initiating my dreaming point??? o.O
if i am a dreamer like that and u knew it, why dont just stop me from dreaming?? instead of letting me move on to stage 3 then 4 and then REM...
i had been in REM sleep too long... it's about time, to wake up~~
Sunday, August 5, 2012
not good enough?
heard this song... and kept me thinking..
probably not all, bt most of the movies and dramas i watched, there is always a part where either the guy or the girl, left the one they loved because they thought that it would make the other half happier and more blissful..
the act that they thought it is so generous, so noble that they are letting their other half go despite all the love that both side portrays.. thinking that they are thinking on their behalf, letting them off so that they could receive more love... is this really so generous?? is this really so noble?? should the other half thanks them for all those so-called "scarifies" ??
this normally seen when one learned they had terminal disease or that they are going to another worst stage of their life..
i dont know about you people who might had another thought but for me, when both person were in love and agreed to be each other half, completing each other, where we said till death tears us apart,
why would one part could ever think that to back off, could bring more happiness to another half??
who are you to determine what i want it to be?? why would being sick or being anything a barrier for 2 person??
how could this become generous when if there is anything happen, regrets and sorrow follow that person all the time.. as opposed to generosity, this is a self-fish act instead...
why would one say they are not up-to-par to a person they like?? have you ever even tried?? giving it up by saying that "she will be happier without me" who are u to even say that?? if the other half who loved you so dearly, and by that, showing your generosity, isnt it show that the other are materialistic? the other half is so weak that a little test from god, she/he couldnt even handle it??
i always thought that, even if left a day, i would want someone i love to be with me... at least, we could make use of the time to built the world best memory.. to able to talk it out, and to face it together... at least no regrets of not being able to say anything that left in the heart..
i knew how it felt to be in such deep regrets, because I, had something left unspoken, and for this, it will remain unspoken for the rest of my life... no matter how much i wish i could turn back the time..it is just not possible...anymore~~
i should have said it...
Sunday, July 29, 2012
love like this
when i wrote that i actually thought of avril lavign COMPLICATED.. ^^
back from my post-birthday celebration.. ate and had a chill..
it's a nice outing.. a time to chill around with a group of crazy friends making crazy rules...
has been some time since we did that but despite the lack of time we had spent together and when we had gather together for an event, it is still awesome like always.. =)
confession time for all :
1st thank you, for the birthday bash that you guys been planning despite exam week... i knew it is a birthday event plan from the day you people told me to had a dinner on saturday night.. but still, im touched for all the planning, and what even best, thank you for the self-made birthday cake... thank you so much...
2nd... i had been very bad in expressing myself.. bad in expressing the words, bad in saying what i had to say in my mind.. many times i had kept things in me, thinking that i might had caused less awkward, less misunderstanding and less trouble explaining myself.. sorry for the part of me hating explaining things i do and who i am... not that i like to ignore and laugh it away, but it is part of me that i hate explaining things around me.. i rather had it silent off itself..
but then let me say.. thank you for being here as my friends despite all the lacking that i had in me...
thank you for giving in to my frequent silly thought, silly words and silly act that may had caused a lot of frustration and annoyance.. i had always, AND I MEAN ALWAYS, had silly thinking, silly word and ask the most ridiculously silly question and answered question in the most idiotic way... thank you for coping up with me.. because if it is me, i would have erupt..
then thanks for giving in to my frequent childish rant and tantrum.. i knew i had threw a lot of tantrums and deserved a good spank for all this.. but instead of a scolding, with patient, you guys had pass it on.. this make me even more ashamed of myself..
what had i done to deserved this back?? i had being taking more than just giving in.. i had done so little to deserved so much from you guys... and i am even more sorry that i had even thought of giving up at times.. for someone who is so lacking and critics so much.. to even had myself to compare to you guys.. i am truly sorry for that...
for a person who is so incomplete and lacking, thank you for blessing me with so many considerate friends.. ♥♥
back from my post-birthday celebration.. ate and had a chill..
it's a nice outing.. a time to chill around with a group of crazy friends making crazy rules...
has been some time since we did that but despite the lack of time we had spent together and when we had gather together for an event, it is still awesome like always.. =)
confession time for all :
1st thank you, for the birthday bash that you guys been planning despite exam week... i knew it is a birthday event plan from the day you people told me to had a dinner on saturday night.. but still, im touched for all the planning, and what even best, thank you for the self-made birthday cake... thank you so much...
2nd... i had been very bad in expressing myself.. bad in expressing the words, bad in saying what i had to say in my mind.. many times i had kept things in me, thinking that i might had caused less awkward, less misunderstanding and less trouble explaining myself.. sorry for the part of me hating explaining things i do and who i am... not that i like to ignore and laugh it away, but it is part of me that i hate explaining things around me.. i rather had it silent off itself..
but then let me say.. thank you for being here as my friends despite all the lacking that i had in me...
thank you for giving in to my frequent silly thought, silly words and silly act that may had caused a lot of frustration and annoyance.. i had always, AND I MEAN ALWAYS, had silly thinking, silly word and ask the most ridiculously silly question and answered question in the most idiotic way... thank you for coping up with me.. because if it is me, i would have erupt..
then thanks for giving in to my frequent childish rant and tantrum.. i knew i had threw a lot of tantrums and deserved a good spank for all this.. but instead of a scolding, with patient, you guys had pass it on.. this make me even more ashamed of myself..
what had i done to deserved this back?? i had being taking more than just giving in.. i had done so little to deserved so much from you guys... and i am even more sorry that i had even thought of giving up at times.. for someone who is so lacking and critics so much.. to even had myself to compare to you guys.. i am truly sorry for that...
for a person who is so incomplete and lacking, thank you for blessing me with so many considerate friends.. ♥♥
Saturday, June 30, 2012
Missing
ever had the feeling of missing someone yet couldnt expressed it out??
the person is so near to say "i miss you" and yet feel so far that no human voice could reach those ear... yup, the phrase so near yet so far..
ever had the moment where u tried to type something on the phone, just to erase it again because you couldnt find a good excuse to type the message??
or to hold on the phone and look at it, hoping for a message?
or maybe when you miss the person so much, u re-read the message conversation and laugh at yourself??
missing a person could be a tiring process yet a blissful waiting.. it's like you wait and wait.. and wait... and puff, a message received, and all those waits, those minutes, those hours dont seem to matter... at that very little second, it feels like you had own the world best moment.. =)
but unfortunately, missing a person could be too very torturing.. the endless wait, the wait that had no tract of stopping..
it could be missing someone who had went afar, afar which mean someone who had change so much that he/she wasnt someone who she/he used to be or someone who had went to an eternity place we called heaven..
looking back on each and everything related to that person, to be remind, to recall, to continue on missing a person... knowing no matter how long you had wait, it is still endless.. the person who has walked away, chances of returning seems to be so negligible..
maybe we will meet again at one point of life... wait me there, u thought..
~~
a very narrative way of starting... wow, back to blog after sometime.. i am actually procrastinating... i was supposed to read my notes for the upcoming exam.. wish me luck guys~ =)
i read somewhere before on a quote which i feel is quite true... "LISTEN TO THE SONG THE GIRL IS LISTENING AND PAY ATTENTION TO THE LYRICS, THOSE ARE THE WORDS SHE WANTED TO SAY"
true enough... at certain time of my mood, the choice of songs i choose differ... recently i listen to MISSING ME - RJ HELTON...
why i pick this song?? hahahaha... read the lyrics~ ^^
finish grumble and nag, here is the song
MISSING ME - RJ HELTON
the person is so near to say "i miss you" and yet feel so far that no human voice could reach those ear... yup, the phrase so near yet so far..
ever had the moment where u tried to type something on the phone, just to erase it again because you couldnt find a good excuse to type the message??
or to hold on the phone and look at it, hoping for a message?
or maybe when you miss the person so much, u re-read the message conversation and laugh at yourself??
missing a person could be a tiring process yet a blissful waiting.. it's like you wait and wait.. and wait... and puff, a message received, and all those waits, those minutes, those hours dont seem to matter... at that very little second, it feels like you had own the world best moment.. =)
but unfortunately, missing a person could be too very torturing.. the endless wait, the wait that had no tract of stopping..
it could be missing someone who had went afar, afar which mean someone who had change so much that he/she wasnt someone who she/he used to be or someone who had went to an eternity place we called heaven..
looking back on each and everything related to that person, to be remind, to recall, to continue on missing a person... knowing no matter how long you had wait, it is still endless.. the person who has walked away, chances of returning seems to be so negligible..
maybe we will meet again at one point of life... wait me there, u thought..
~~
a very narrative way of starting... wow, back to blog after sometime.. i am actually procrastinating... i was supposed to read my notes for the upcoming exam.. wish me luck guys~ =)
i read somewhere before on a quote which i feel is quite true... "LISTEN TO THE SONG THE GIRL IS LISTENING AND PAY ATTENTION TO THE LYRICS, THOSE ARE THE WORDS SHE WANTED TO SAY"
true enough... at certain time of my mood, the choice of songs i choose differ... recently i listen to MISSING ME - RJ HELTON...
why i pick this song?? hahahaha... read the lyrics~ ^^
finish grumble and nag, here is the song
MISSING ME - RJ HELTON
Tuesday, June 12, 2012
cyclothymic
i was very happy in the ward today... not that i learnt something new but then i met back someone i wanted to meet...
and to my very surprise, he actually recognize me... =)
okay, he is none other than one of the medical officer i say handsome in the hospital im currently posted in.. =) although currently in medical posting, but then i follow an anesthesiology medical officer doing his peripheral round ... LOL~
and well, i overhead the nurse ogling at him and say he is cute/handsome/cool and etc ...
they must be very surprised to see i could be so informal when talking to him.. and hey, not my fault... he started the informality first..
a happy medical student at that very moment.. =)
but the happiness doesnt last long... i have no idea out of nowhere, while i was walking to the car with someone.. that very someone told me in a good way but still hurting, that i talk in a very arrogant way... and make me think, am i that impudent? am i that offending???
that kick me from heaven down to hell....
i should have care less bout every comment/critics.....
i should have... i should have...
maybe i had.... attitude problem...
to all who care, i am truly sorry for my attitude problem... and my lost of manners...
i failed my mum in being a better human~
and to my very surprise, he actually recognize me... =)
okay, he is none other than one of the medical officer i say handsome in the hospital im currently posted in.. =) although currently in medical posting, but then i follow an anesthesiology medical officer doing his peripheral round ... LOL~
and well, i overhead the nurse ogling at him and say he is cute/handsome/cool and etc ...
they must be very surprised to see i could be so informal when talking to him.. and hey, not my fault... he started the informality first..
a happy medical student at that very moment.. =)
but the happiness doesnt last long... i have no idea out of nowhere, while i was walking to the car with someone.. that very someone told me in a good way but still hurting, that i talk in a very arrogant way... and make me think, am i that impudent? am i that offending???
that kick me from heaven down to hell....
i should have care less bout every comment/critics.....
i should have... i should have...
maybe i had.... attitude problem...
to all who care, i am truly sorry for my attitude problem... and my lost of manners...
i failed my mum in being a better human~
Thursday, June 7, 2012
explanation
have you ever caught in a place where everyone wants you to say what is in your mind only to rebut it later ?? and still, want to know what is your opinion ??
have you ever been in a place where nobody would want to listen to your explanation and when they finally saying what u plan to say and then blames it on you that you havent talk about it??
i had... had it so much that at time i passed it on with "sorry but i have no idea" "anything u want" "whatever" "i have no comment" "its okay"
taking all the bother to explain about something... why would i when nobody is listening.. is it fun to say so much and yet nobody going to care what is on???
why would i say it in the first place when nobody believe me??
why would i explain myself and make myself heard when everything i said is a nag to all ears??
i learn a lot in staying in... thank you for all the valuable lectures..
i learnt something in this 2 years... have you???
i learnt not to comment so much in something.. nobody interested, nobody wants to know... keep it to yourself
i learnt that people only had interest when it comes to their own interest... if not, they wouldnt care to listen about it... if it applies only to your interest, keep it to yourself... because once they had done or settle with theirs, they will never bother bout yours...
i care so i say...
i keep quiet... not because i being less noisy, it is because i choose to mute myself, as well as mute my care...
being housemate and only housemate is all we have now~
let's enjoy another year .... and close it nicely~
have you ever been in a place where nobody would want to listen to your explanation and when they finally saying what u plan to say and then blames it on you that you havent talk about it??
i had... had it so much that at time i passed it on with "sorry but i have no idea" "anything u want" "whatever" "i have no comment" "its okay"
taking all the bother to explain about something... why would i when nobody is listening.. is it fun to say so much and yet nobody going to care what is on???
why would i say it in the first place when nobody believe me??
why would i explain myself and make myself heard when everything i said is a nag to all ears??
i learn a lot in staying in... thank you for all the valuable lectures..
i learnt something in this 2 years... have you???
i learnt not to comment so much in something.. nobody interested, nobody wants to know... keep it to yourself
i learnt that people only had interest when it comes to their own interest... if not, they wouldnt care to listen about it... if it applies only to your interest, keep it to yourself... because once they had done or settle with theirs, they will never bother bout yours...
i care so i say...
i keep quiet... not because i being less noisy, it is because i choose to mute myself, as well as mute my care...
being housemate and only housemate is all we have now~
let's enjoy another year .... and close it nicely~
Sunday, May 20, 2012
run
I'll sing it one last time for you
Then we really have to go
you´ve been the only thing that´s right
In all I´ve done
And I can barely look at you
But every single time I do
I know we'll make it anywhere
Away from here
Light up, light up
As if you have a choice
Even if you cannot hear my voice
I'll be right beside you dear
Louder louder
And we'll run for our lives
I can hardly speak I understand
Why you can´t raise your voice to say
To think I might not see those eyes
Makes it so hard not to cry
And as we say our long goodbye
I nearly do
Light up, light up
As if you have a choice
Even if you cannot hear my voice
I'll be right beside you dear
Louder louder
And we'll run for our lives
I can hardly speak I understand
Why you can´t raise your voice to say
Light up, light up
As if you have a choice
Even if you cannot hear my voice
I'll be right beside you dear
Louder louder
And we'll run for our lives
I can hardly speak I understand
Why you can´t raise your voice to say
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all i can say is this song is a love~
Saturday, May 19, 2012
together ♥
♥♥
ever noticed the forever friend teddy i been using as my background?? i used forever friend teddy everywhere.. in my twitter, here in blog, previously as cover picture in my facebook and.. my desktop ..
i always like forever friend teddy~ because of the name, of course because the adorable, hugable and cuteness overload teddy, but because of the name, forever friend..
i know i had been talking about friends and how i had to cope up with people around me.. for the past few weeks, or probably months, i had been in constant on and off depression to an extent, i think i could diagnosed myself either cyclothymia or probably moderate depression syndrome.. or probably bipolar type 2 syndrome..
till today.. i had an outing with my girls, my girls that make me all laid back and happy..
it could be just a simple outing, with movie (we watched SAFE (2012)) and then shop around (and i met my junior after so many years.. hahaha, she still recognised me, what a surprise...) and then dinner and supper and story telling time.. ^^
it could be just a simple girls outing.. but the laughter in it is so loud that it could shakes the place up.. and liling brought her little baby and it brightens the whole place even more.. it is hot there, but nobody mind fanning the little princess with the recipe book.. when she cries, 4-5 girls got freaked out and the noise from them is even louder than the cries from the little girl.. =)
it is just as simple as that.. we were there talking all sort of nonsense, nothing informative.. probably talking bout haunted school and what they did, what they been kaypo-ing on, or about the scary no-hand crawling on the floor old lady in the uni, or about pregnancy... or maybe some few random crazy selca... ♥♥
but for today, i had my mind chilled.. i had my mind stop thinking, did i said something wrong, did i did something wrong, am i wrong for doing this, what are those people thinking, why are they unhappy, what are they unhappy at, what sentence should i say ...
i laugh so loud, i could say "you are an idiot!!" without any drawback, without thinking that i could hurt someone with that sentence..
i didnt say that back in there, i couldnt do the same thing.. i still laugh very loud, i still jokes around... is just at times, to certain people, i had to restrain myself..
and it is not as free... as back here with this grp of insane engineers.. =)
maybe stress is taking a troll in me... stress i faced there, i could be unconsciously draining the blame to people around me...
i should start de-stress myself, take up some stress management class... =)
but for now, let me take an opportunity to say.. THANK YOU GIRLS.. AND I ♥ YOU!! ^^
baby lizy..
ever noticed the forever friend teddy i been using as my background?? i used forever friend teddy everywhere.. in my twitter, here in blog, previously as cover picture in my facebook and.. my desktop ..
i always like forever friend teddy~ because of the name, of course because the adorable, hugable and cuteness overload teddy, but because of the name, forever friend..
i know i had been talking about friends and how i had to cope up with people around me.. for the past few weeks, or probably months, i had been in constant on and off depression to an extent, i think i could diagnosed myself either cyclothymia or probably moderate depression syndrome.. or probably bipolar type 2 syndrome..
till today.. i had an outing with my girls, my girls that make me all laid back and happy..
it could be just a simple outing, with movie (we watched SAFE (2012)) and then shop around (and i met my junior after so many years.. hahaha, she still recognised me, what a surprise...) and then dinner and supper and story telling time.. ^^
it could be just a simple girls outing.. but the laughter in it is so loud that it could shakes the place up.. and liling brought her little baby and it brightens the whole place even more.. it is hot there, but nobody mind fanning the little princess with the recipe book.. when she cries, 4-5 girls got freaked out and the noise from them is even louder than the cries from the little girl.. =)
it is just as simple as that.. we were there talking all sort of nonsense, nothing informative.. probably talking bout haunted school and what they did, what they been kaypo-ing on, or about the scary no-hand crawling on the floor old lady in the uni, or about pregnancy... or maybe some few random crazy selca... ♥♥
but for today, i had my mind chilled.. i had my mind stop thinking, did i said something wrong, did i did something wrong, am i wrong for doing this, what are those people thinking, why are they unhappy, what are they unhappy at, what sentence should i say ...
i laugh so loud, i could say "you are an idiot!!" without any drawback, without thinking that i could hurt someone with that sentence..
i didnt say that back in there, i couldnt do the same thing.. i still laugh very loud, i still jokes around... is just at times, to certain people, i had to restrain myself..
and it is not as free... as back here with this grp of insane engineers.. =)
maybe stress is taking a troll in me... stress i faced there, i could be unconsciously draining the blame to people around me...
i should start de-stress myself, take up some stress management class... =)
but for now, let me take an opportunity to say.. THANK YOU GIRLS.. AND I ♥ YOU!! ^^
baby lizy..
Monday, May 14, 2012
傻瓜
title translated as : stupid
instead of starting a prologue-kind-of-introduction-before-going-into-the-real-question, today i am going straight to the question.. =) i had stated about life, friends and other stuff-that-i-had-forgotten-what-the-earth-is-it.. =)
so today let's go to the topic LOVE.. ^^
what is love?? what is the definition of love??
some people had love as their everything in life, even more than their life... some had it so insignificant in their life, putting it last in their priority list...
just like life, everyone had their own definition of love .. but what is the common definition of love??
no matter how would one define it, how someone placed it, how they see it, how they used it.... love is something one couldnt but must have it in their life.. to have it excessively, or to have it just enough to be loved and to love, or to have it so little... everyone had this little love potion in them.. everyone has it.. our love not to our own lover, but love to parent, love to siblings, love to friends, love to animals and love to other sapiens..
let us make the title simple..instead of putting it so wide to almost everyone and everything in this world, let us make it simple... to the one we love.. =)
love is always a magical feeling that brings 2 persons' heart into same alignment at right time, right place with the perfect right feeling ...
love is also the destroyer feeling that tore 2 persons' heart into 2 different alignment at the wrong time, wrong place with the perfectly wrong freaking feeling ...
it could be varies from one extremeties to another... it makes people feel so doubtful yet so determined.. so depressed yet so blissful...
it turns one person from who they are to who they wanted the opposite wants them to be... it turns one sane person into insanity...
it is so powerful that love could turn into hatred and destroyed both...
have any of you ever feel like to really take up the courage and say YES I WANT TO BE WITH YOU... I LOVE YOU AND I WANT TO BE WITH YOU...
u know what, i never had the courage to say any of that....
to starts off a relationship it is hard but i still think to maintain a relationship is even harder.. this is the time where friction, fights and everything comes into your way.. and how strong is the love will be put on test... it was also the time where one would think, i love him but are we supposed to be together? are we fated to be together?? OR i am sorry but i dont love you anymore.. you deserved a better person ...
if this question were to emerge soon, why they agreed to be together at the first place?? what then makes the words "you are mine forever" "i love you and till death separates both of us" "for you, everything is easy" ... what makes the initial feeling gone?? the lack of determination to continue on?? the lack of understanding??
have any of us thought of marriage vows : I promise to be true to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health. I will love you and honor you all the days of my life.
i watched the drama THE HIPPOCRATIC CRUSH.. kenneth ma said this :
"Marriage vows...if just read out according to convention, there's no meaning...When young, beautiful and healthy, so certainly love. However, when the other gradually ages, old and defeated, has more and more illnesses, and even watching the other die of old age...so, no longer love then? Since, in the future, will not abandon each other...now should be the same. If just because the other has an illness and not love, then it's not true love. [No one knows one's life span.] Even we, as doctors, cannot guarantee that we'll live to a hundred. Thus, there is no guarantee of growing old together in marriage vows, but must guarantee that, whether in sickness or in health, must be together"
it's true.. u dont say about eternity for one had no guarantee in eternity... everyone who said this line with their other half should have knew why instead of making it short and simple with the word eternity, to be with you for the eternity... why is the vow written it into, to be true to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health... because this is the times, where love are put onto a test....
someone asked me before... why?
why am i so scared to be in love... is it that you had put ur target so high ??
i asked myself before.. am i?? am i putting it so high ?? or am i guarding my heart, my feeling so strong that i walled it high and not letting anyone to step in...
i thought for a second... i choose the latter one... i guard myself too well.. to be over protective of myself...
protect myself from this.. i knew i am being way to realistic.. to protective that i had no-one to had a slightest chance to put me into a dilemma..
i am too coward.. coward to be in love... or too self-protective..
i should open up a little...
please dont give up on me.. =)
so yeah...
instead of starting a prologue-kind-of-introduction-before-going-into-the-real-question, today i am going straight to the question.. =) i had stated about life, friends and other stuff-that-i-had-forgotten-what-the-earth-is-it.. =)
so today let's go to the topic LOVE.. ^^
what is love?? what is the definition of love??
some people had love as their everything in life, even more than their life... some had it so insignificant in their life, putting it last in their priority list...
just like life, everyone had their own definition of love .. but what is the common definition of love??
no matter how would one define it, how someone placed it, how they see it, how they used it.... love is something one couldnt but must have it in their life.. to have it excessively, or to have it just enough to be loved and to love, or to have it so little... everyone had this little love potion in them.. everyone has it.. our love not to our own lover, but love to parent, love to siblings, love to friends, love to animals and love to other sapiens..
let us make the title simple..instead of putting it so wide to almost everyone and everything in this world, let us make it simple... to the one we love.. =)
love is always a magical feeling that brings 2 persons' heart into same alignment at right time, right place with the perfect right feeling ...
love is also the destroyer feeling that tore 2 persons' heart into 2 different alignment at the wrong time, wrong place with the perfectly wrong freaking feeling ...
it could be varies from one extremeties to another... it makes people feel so doubtful yet so determined.. so depressed yet so blissful...
it turns one person from who they are to who they wanted the opposite wants them to be... it turns one sane person into insanity...
it is so powerful that love could turn into hatred and destroyed both...
have any of you ever feel like to really take up the courage and say YES I WANT TO BE WITH YOU... I LOVE YOU AND I WANT TO BE WITH YOU...
u know what, i never had the courage to say any of that....
to starts off a relationship it is hard but i still think to maintain a relationship is even harder.. this is the time where friction, fights and everything comes into your way.. and how strong is the love will be put on test... it was also the time where one would think, i love him but are we supposed to be together? are we fated to be together?? OR i am sorry but i dont love you anymore.. you deserved a better person ...
if this question were to emerge soon, why they agreed to be together at the first place?? what then makes the words "you are mine forever" "i love you and till death separates both of us" "for you, everything is easy" ... what makes the initial feeling gone?? the lack of determination to continue on?? the lack of understanding??
have any of us thought of marriage vows : I promise to be true to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health. I will love you and honor you all the days of my life.
i watched the drama THE HIPPOCRATIC CRUSH.. kenneth ma said this :
"Marriage vows...if just read out according to convention, there's no meaning...When young, beautiful and healthy, so certainly love. However, when the other gradually ages, old and defeated, has more and more illnesses, and even watching the other die of old age...so, no longer love then? Since, in the future, will not abandon each other...now should be the same. If just because the other has an illness and not love, then it's not true love. [No one knows one's life span.] Even we, as doctors, cannot guarantee that we'll live to a hundred. Thus, there is no guarantee of growing old together in marriage vows, but must guarantee that, whether in sickness or in health, must be together"
it's true.. u dont say about eternity for one had no guarantee in eternity... everyone who said this line with their other half should have knew why instead of making it short and simple with the word eternity, to be with you for the eternity... why is the vow written it into, to be true to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health... because this is the times, where love are put onto a test....
someone asked me before... why?
why am i so scared to be in love... is it that you had put ur target so high ??
i asked myself before.. am i?? am i putting it so high ?? or am i guarding my heart, my feeling so strong that i walled it high and not letting anyone to step in...
i thought for a second... i choose the latter one... i guard myself too well.. to be over protective of myself...
protect myself from this.. i knew i am being way to realistic.. to protective that i had no-one to had a slightest chance to put me into a dilemma..
i am too coward.. coward to be in love... or too self-protective..
i should open up a little...
please dont give up on me.. =)
so yeah...
Wednesday, May 9, 2012
a bitter day
have u heard quotes about smile?? how a smile could change a person and a day of another person?
how strong a smile could give? how beautiful a smile could be??
did anyone mention to you that if u were to smile with full gratitude, to smile with the most sincerity u had, u had the best life? and that it brightens up people around you?? how powerful it could be and that it melts just any ice??
some examples of quotes by the big names ... on smile~
1. Peace begins with smile - Mother Teresa
2. "And then he gives a smile that just seems so genuinely sweet with just the right touch of shyness that unexpected warmth rushes through me" - katniss everdeen , Hunger Game
3. Let us make one point that we meet each other with a smile, when it is difficult to smile. smile at each other, make time for each other in your family - Mother Teresa
4. if you cant find the right words for certain situations just give a smile. words have the potential to confuse but a smile convinces.
5. your smile looks adorable on you! you should wear it more often.
i smiled.. i smiled every day.. waking up in the morning, smiling my heart out, being a cheerful girl i always am...
but the smile portion just dont work.. it didnt work.. it never work...
how could it not work on me?? is it really not working?? am i really a failure in life??
i did something wrong in my daily life?? this never stops, and being continuous all day and every day... i am so sick about it..
why is it me who had to cope with everyone emotion and not just someone to cope with mine??
am i being the one coping for so long, that i had become a no-emotion sapiens??
i am tired... i really do...
i am tired to be someone's doll... i am tired to be everyone moderator..
i am tired to cope with everyone stress and emotion..
dont blame me for not being understanding.. i had my own level of stress... i had my own problems that are unspoken of...
why am i had to understand your stress and keep up with the tantrum ??
i had enough that i smile early in the morning and everyone had a poker face to show....
i had enough of smiling... it just doesnt work that way... it doesnt...
how strong a smile could give? how beautiful a smile could be??
did anyone mention to you that if u were to smile with full gratitude, to smile with the most sincerity u had, u had the best life? and that it brightens up people around you?? how powerful it could be and that it melts just any ice??
some examples of quotes by the big names ... on smile~
1. Peace begins with smile - Mother Teresa
2. "And then he gives a smile that just seems so genuinely sweet with just the right touch of shyness that unexpected warmth rushes through me" - katniss everdeen , Hunger Game
3. Let us make one point that we meet each other with a smile, when it is difficult to smile. smile at each other, make time for each other in your family - Mother Teresa
4. if you cant find the right words for certain situations just give a smile. words have the potential to confuse but a smile convinces.
5. your smile looks adorable on you! you should wear it more often.
i smiled.. i smiled every day.. waking up in the morning, smiling my heart out, being a cheerful girl i always am...
but the smile portion just dont work.. it didnt work.. it never work...
how could it not work on me?? is it really not working?? am i really a failure in life??
i did something wrong in my daily life?? this never stops, and being continuous all day and every day... i am so sick about it..
why is it me who had to cope with everyone emotion and not just someone to cope with mine??
am i being the one coping for so long, that i had become a no-emotion sapiens??
i am tired... i really do...
i am tired to be someone's doll... i am tired to be everyone moderator..
i am tired to cope with everyone stress and emotion..
dont blame me for not being understanding.. i had my own level of stress... i had my own problems that are unspoken of...
why am i had to understand your stress and keep up with the tantrum ??
i had enough that i smile early in the morning and everyone had a poker face to show....
i had enough of smiling... it just doesnt work that way... it doesnt...
Monday, April 16, 2012
it's okay, it's alright
i tried..i really tried to forget everything... but the more i forget and gave in till when everything bounce back, the more it hurts...it really does... but then, nobody knew how it kills me slowly~
I give you an inch and you take a mile
You make mistakes that erase when you smile
Im starting to feel like it aint alright
How can you care if I dont cross your mind
Cause I
Say I wanna talk but you just push me away
Tell me your leaving when I want you to stay
I never thought that loving you would hurt me this way
But Im the only one to blame
Cause Im always saying
Its ok, it's alright
I put the pain away and let it slide
I forgive and forget it
And then you promise me I wont regret it
But I do, it's not right
Because I turn around and let it slide
And im crazy for thinking
That someday you'll change things when you keep on crossin' the line
Something about you won't let me go
Maybe hes better being alone
I, keep saying im gonna move on
But it's so hard when your all that I know
But I, Say I wanna talk but you just push me away
Tell me your leaving when I want you to stay
Never thought that loving you would hurt me this way
But Im the only one to blame
Cause im always saying
It's ok, it's alright
I put the pain away and let it slide
I forgive and forget it
And then you promise me I wont regret it
But I do
It's not right because I turn around and let it slide
And Im crazy for thinking that someday you'll change things
When you keep on crossin' the line
Boy I wish I didnt give in so easily
Oh, I dont know what to do
Cause I keep on feeding the flame
When I should really be telling you we're through
Its ok, it's alright
I put the pain away and let it slide
I forgive and forget it
And then you promise me I wont regret it
But I do, it's not right
Because I turn around and let it slide
And im crazy for thinking
That someday you'll change things when you keep on crossin' the line
..............
I give you an inch and you take a mile
You make mistakes that erase when you smile
Im starting to feel like it aint alright
How can you care if I dont cross your mind
Cause I
Say I wanna talk but you just push me away
Tell me your leaving when I want you to stay
I never thought that loving you would hurt me this way
But Im the only one to blame
Cause Im always saying
Its ok, it's alright
I put the pain away and let it slide
I forgive and forget it
And then you promise me I wont regret it
But I do, it's not right
Because I turn around and let it slide
And im crazy for thinking
That someday you'll change things when you keep on crossin' the line
Something about you won't let me go
Maybe hes better being alone
I, keep saying im gonna move on
But it's so hard when your all that I know
But I, Say I wanna talk but you just push me away
Tell me your leaving when I want you to stay
Never thought that loving you would hurt me this way
But Im the only one to blame
Cause im always saying
It's ok, it's alright
I put the pain away and let it slide
I forgive and forget it
And then you promise me I wont regret it
But I do
It's not right because I turn around and let it slide
And Im crazy for thinking that someday you'll change things
When you keep on crossin' the line
Boy I wish I didnt give in so easily
Oh, I dont know what to do
Cause I keep on feeding the flame
When I should really be telling you we're through
Its ok, it's alright
I put the pain away and let it slide
I forgive and forget it
And then you promise me I wont regret it
But I do, it's not right
Because I turn around and let it slide
And im crazy for thinking
That someday you'll change things when you keep on crossin' the line
..............
L.I.F.E
what is LIFE?? how could one define life?? different people define life differently bt then no matter how differ we define that word, isnt what we are facing everyday are equally the same??
breating in the same air, taking up the same task and doing the same thing... we studied, we worked.. we earn and then to spend on anything that could define us as LIFE..
like others, we are facing the same risk of having arguments, getting sick, having job promotion and as well as death~ so why are we working so hard, moulding ourself to what we self-defined the world LIFE??
is this word particularly our goal of life?? is this word a guideline to what we are supposed to achieve in this life? is this word a reassurance to ourself??
i dont know how would i define this life... i always wanted a simple life but then again, to what extend?? is simple basically having a simple relaxed life with no worries?? or a simple life so simple that i live off as an ordinary people?? simple isnt it?? i always talked on simple life, simple way of living and simple mind but all this simple is actually a complexity itself.
now that i think of, what is the life i always wanted?? i wanted a cozy house, a house i called home...until one day, my mum asked me to pick a house to stay...and till then i realized, my simple life isnt that simple after all.. if i wouldnt taken up the complicated work, and live of an ordinary girl-next-door, that house that i picked wouldnt be in my dictionary at all..
and this makes me think again.. what define as my life.. what is the best definition of life?? some wants a life full of protection where they dont need to worry on stretching their money to the maximum, some say life is too short to be in pain where they enjoyed their life to the max and not worrying on future, some just work an ordinary 9-5 work and lives of an ordinary neighbour, some thinks all he could and earn as much as he could and save all the money and happily looking at the increase 0 in his bank account...
so what exactly is life ??? Buddha says to born to the world, to see the world, to get ill and to leave the world... that is a cycle of life...
but in that process, before the end of everything..what could a life be?? shakespeare says life is like a stage, we are the actors and actresses .. when the play goes off, the curtains come down, we get down from the stage.. some get off earlier..some get up on the middle of the play..
it's true.. when i look back on the old video of a deceased person just like whitney houston, it feels like she is still here... how she grew old, how she change from a person to another, her life just like the drama, played thru the screen..
the definition of life is too broad for us to specific it down... everyone has their own way of defining their life.. question is, can we interrupt and change it??
and another question... is knowing when we are leaving the world, a good thing or a bad thing???
if you were to know that u could live up to 80 years old and died peacefully, how would u make use of the 60 years of life??
if you were to know that tomorrow is the day you would leave for eternity, how would u spent the 24 hours that is left??
my own definition of living a simple life is now shaky...im in doubt if i could still dream of living a simple life... because i knew, the life i had been dreaming about, isnt so easy and isnt so simple after all... and it needs scarifies as well as efforts... simple is indeed a complexity
breating in the same air, taking up the same task and doing the same thing... we studied, we worked.. we earn and then to spend on anything that could define us as LIFE..
like others, we are facing the same risk of having arguments, getting sick, having job promotion and as well as death~ so why are we working so hard, moulding ourself to what we self-defined the world LIFE??
is this word particularly our goal of life?? is this word a guideline to what we are supposed to achieve in this life? is this word a reassurance to ourself??
i dont know how would i define this life... i always wanted a simple life but then again, to what extend?? is simple basically having a simple relaxed life with no worries?? or a simple life so simple that i live off as an ordinary people?? simple isnt it?? i always talked on simple life, simple way of living and simple mind but all this simple is actually a complexity itself.
now that i think of, what is the life i always wanted?? i wanted a cozy house, a house i called home...until one day, my mum asked me to pick a house to stay...and till then i realized, my simple life isnt that simple after all.. if i wouldnt taken up the complicated work, and live of an ordinary girl-next-door, that house that i picked wouldnt be in my dictionary at all..
and this makes me think again.. what define as my life.. what is the best definition of life?? some wants a life full of protection where they dont need to worry on stretching their money to the maximum, some say life is too short to be in pain where they enjoyed their life to the max and not worrying on future, some just work an ordinary 9-5 work and lives of an ordinary neighbour, some thinks all he could and earn as much as he could and save all the money and happily looking at the increase 0 in his bank account...
so what exactly is life ??? Buddha says to born to the world, to see the world, to get ill and to leave the world... that is a cycle of life...
but in that process, before the end of everything..what could a life be?? shakespeare says life is like a stage, we are the actors and actresses .. when the play goes off, the curtains come down, we get down from the stage.. some get off earlier..some get up on the middle of the play..
it's true.. when i look back on the old video of a deceased person just like whitney houston, it feels like she is still here... how she grew old, how she change from a person to another, her life just like the drama, played thru the screen..
the definition of life is too broad for us to specific it down... everyone has their own way of defining their life.. question is, can we interrupt and change it??
and another question... is knowing when we are leaving the world, a good thing or a bad thing???
if you were to know that u could live up to 80 years old and died peacefully, how would u make use of the 60 years of life??
if you were to know that tomorrow is the day you would leave for eternity, how would u spent the 24 hours that is left??
my own definition of living a simple life is now shaky...im in doubt if i could still dream of living a simple life... because i knew, the life i had been dreaming about, isnt so easy and isnt so simple after all... and it needs scarifies as well as efforts... simple is indeed a complexity
Friday, March 30, 2012
a boring me! =)
it's a boring day where a boring girl sitting in front of a boring laptop and think of what to do in the next boring seconds...
hahahahahaha~ i am indeed boring.. to an extent, i wanted to spam my own facebook with my own self-absorbed picture.. a selca!!! i mean selcaSSS!!! =)
but then to think that it might be nuisance to my friends in facebook, i think i shall spam it here~ =)
im not trying to say i am pretty, or to be so proud of myself... i know i am not pretty...
and being confidence about my own look, isnt something in my dictionary~ =)
but then, a discussion from yesterday makes me realize it's okay that one is not beautiful, it's okay u are not pretty, it's okay u are not the hottest girl in the class neither the sexy chicks that everyone wants.. it doest matter if u had just an average look and a simple girl~
but as long as you yourself are proud of who u are, to be who u wants to be, and look just amazingly like yourself, and confidently walking down the road, people will notice that charm of yours~ =)
i should learn that conclusion... and well, being a girl next door, is a matter in fact, the hardest type of girl u can be~ =)
hahahahahaha~ i am indeed boring.. to an extent, i wanted to spam my own facebook with my own self-absorbed picture.. a selca!!! i mean selcaSSS!!! =)
but then to think that it might be nuisance to my friends in facebook, i think i shall spam it here~ =)
im not trying to say i am pretty, or to be so proud of myself... i know i am not pretty...
and being confidence about my own look, isnt something in my dictionary~ =)
but then, a discussion from yesterday makes me realize it's okay that one is not beautiful, it's okay u are not pretty, it's okay u are not the hottest girl in the class neither the sexy chicks that everyone wants.. it doest matter if u had just an average look and a simple girl~
but as long as you yourself are proud of who u are, to be who u wants to be, and look just amazingly like yourself, and confidently walking down the road, people will notice that charm of yours~ =)
i should learn that conclusion... and well, being a girl next door, is a matter in fact, the hardest type of girl u can be~ =)
Wednesday, March 21, 2012
soulmate
i always felt that the relationship between 2 homosapiens is magical..
for 2 different person, of different world to come together and be friends, isnt it amazing to know how could both cope with each other??? some people had what we called social loveable and some who hardly get one to talk on..but then, i believe in our life, we will eventually had at least 1 person who we can open up our heart.. =)
i always believe it is not fate that makes one likeable or forever alone.. but it was how one acts toward another..
but then, what it takes for one to be socially acceptable?? am i using the right word??? i might look like a social butterfly to one, and anti-social to another.. if u knew me well, i am a social butterfly~ =D
anyway, what it takes to link 2 person of different DNA, of different behaviour and different opinions together??? i know some had a friend who have everything so similar to themselves and they call it soulmate.. but then soulmate could be of different people with different personality right..
~~~
i dont know bout' urs but here is what i think.. =) no hard feeling but it is always my own personal view.. xD
i believe that not a person in this world is perfect...personality wise or attitude wise.. im nt a person who is so saint or noble either... nobody in this world is so perfect in mentally, physically or socially unless u are self-declared god (that too, isnt perfect)..
for 2 person to come together and be friends, it is always acceptance... acceptance and tolerance and understanding.. why is it this??
like i had said before, nobody in this world is as perfect as they would think they are... =) eventually there will be something that hurts the other.. one man's rose is always another man's thorn.. =) but then to accept who they are instead of changing who they are, to tolerate their attitude by accepting who they are, and to understand them internally instead of externally... gradually, we will adapt to the person.. we have high adaptation skill arent we?? human adapts to their things around them so quick that they dont even realised it.. =)
isnt complaining for who they are, what they did and then to hold on grudges and hatred is something tiring..it well at least exhaust me mentally..
some people ask me before, how can you tolerate your friends for what they had did??
i do..i do get angry for a certain time, but in the time of getting angry, i asked myself back.. is it a fault of a person or it is a fault of 2 way??? if you would ever be friend in the first place, why is it a conflicts that could break off a friendship?? what is the feeling of the 1st time when we had became friend??
here i am talking about close friends not superficial friend.. it has differ.. i admit that not all people i am hanging out around, are my close friends.. well, everyone had friends who are superficial as well as deep~ =)
in that process, understanding starts to take place.. yes, i start to know, so that is what she/he really are... so?? am i forego that friends??
nobody in this world is a saint, that is at least what i believe.... then accept the person for who they are if you are going to hold on the person as your friends...
eventually u will adapt to that person for who they are.. =)
when u accept and adapt, whatever they do, like previously, you wouldnt have hurt that much as the 1st time.. isnt it?? at one point, u would have laugh at their action.. =)
adapt and grow up in the process... this survival skill would have benefit one in any environment that one live in.. at one stage of life, u will have met at least 100 different attitude and character.. are we going to live our life miserably because we couldnt have one person to have open up our mind in that particular place??
or are we going to change the view of it and live with it??? if we keep on going back to past and to hang on to only one person and to think that she/he is the only friend that you could have in your lifetime, what happen if one day that person left your world??? is that mean u gonna be just like the forever alone meme??
people dont walk to your door and knock and say let's be soulmate.. even if there is, but if you would have been so rigid in your feeling and views, i feel, that 2 person wouldnt be close friends...even if they appear to be close, but then to what extend?? if one thing could had rock their relationship, will it end just like that?? and if that happen, what would happen??
to be over calculative and to measure every depth and weight of a friendship, to have motive and to plan out a strategy in making friend and to fake all loveable traits instead of showing the real traits, arent all this tire you out??
i truly believe that if you are a friend to one... they accept you for who you are, not change who you arent. because by changing your own friend, is that person the same person who u first met??? the 1st person who u said HI to??
this is at least what i think...
i am as simple as that...whatever i do, as long as i think it soothe my heart and i think it is right, i would done it... and well of course sincerely..
but could it be in this world today that being so simple is actually complicated in the other's eyes and hard to interpret?? and to be complicated it is easier to be guess??
maybe i should be a little more complicated.. hahahaha~ =) well at least, some people dont need to guess me so hard.. xD
but then, i need some teaching to be complicated~ =)
for 2 different person, of different world to come together and be friends, isnt it amazing to know how could both cope with each other??? some people had what we called social loveable and some who hardly get one to talk on..but then, i believe in our life, we will eventually had at least 1 person who we can open up our heart.. =)
i always believe it is not fate that makes one likeable or forever alone.. but it was how one acts toward another..
but then, what it takes for one to be socially acceptable?? am i using the right word??? i might look like a social butterfly to one, and anti-social to another.. if u knew me well, i am a social butterfly~ =D
anyway, what it takes to link 2 person of different DNA, of different behaviour and different opinions together??? i know some had a friend who have everything so similar to themselves and they call it soulmate.. but then soulmate could be of different people with different personality right..
~~~
i dont know bout' urs but here is what i think.. =) no hard feeling but it is always my own personal view.. xD
i believe that not a person in this world is perfect...personality wise or attitude wise.. im nt a person who is so saint or noble either... nobody in this world is so perfect in mentally, physically or socially unless u are self-declared god (that too, isnt perfect)..
for 2 person to come together and be friends, it is always acceptance... acceptance and tolerance and understanding.. why is it this??
like i had said before, nobody in this world is as perfect as they would think they are... =) eventually there will be something that hurts the other.. one man's rose is always another man's thorn.. =) but then to accept who they are instead of changing who they are, to tolerate their attitude by accepting who they are, and to understand them internally instead of externally... gradually, we will adapt to the person.. we have high adaptation skill arent we?? human adapts to their things around them so quick that they dont even realised it.. =)
isnt complaining for who they are, what they did and then to hold on grudges and hatred is something tiring..it well at least exhaust me mentally..
some people ask me before, how can you tolerate your friends for what they had did??
i do..i do get angry for a certain time, but in the time of getting angry, i asked myself back.. is it a fault of a person or it is a fault of 2 way??? if you would ever be friend in the first place, why is it a conflicts that could break off a friendship?? what is the feeling of the 1st time when we had became friend??
here i am talking about close friends not superficial friend.. it has differ.. i admit that not all people i am hanging out around, are my close friends.. well, everyone had friends who are superficial as well as deep~ =)
in that process, understanding starts to take place.. yes, i start to know, so that is what she/he really are... so?? am i forego that friends??
nobody in this world is a saint, that is at least what i believe.... then accept the person for who they are if you are going to hold on the person as your friends...
eventually u will adapt to that person for who they are.. =)
when u accept and adapt, whatever they do, like previously, you wouldnt have hurt that much as the 1st time.. isnt it?? at one point, u would have laugh at their action.. =)
adapt and grow up in the process... this survival skill would have benefit one in any environment that one live in.. at one stage of life, u will have met at least 100 different attitude and character.. are we going to live our life miserably because we couldnt have one person to have open up our mind in that particular place??
or are we going to change the view of it and live with it??? if we keep on going back to past and to hang on to only one person and to think that she/he is the only friend that you could have in your lifetime, what happen if one day that person left your world??? is that mean u gonna be just like the forever alone meme??
people dont walk to your door and knock and say let's be soulmate.. even if there is, but if you would have been so rigid in your feeling and views, i feel, that 2 person wouldnt be close friends...even if they appear to be close, but then to what extend?? if one thing could had rock their relationship, will it end just like that?? and if that happen, what would happen??
to be over calculative and to measure every depth and weight of a friendship, to have motive and to plan out a strategy in making friend and to fake all loveable traits instead of showing the real traits, arent all this tire you out??
i truly believe that if you are a friend to one... they accept you for who you are, not change who you arent. because by changing your own friend, is that person the same person who u first met??? the 1st person who u said HI to??
this is at least what i think...
i am as simple as that...whatever i do, as long as i think it soothe my heart and i think it is right, i would done it... and well of course sincerely..
but could it be in this world today that being so simple is actually complicated in the other's eyes and hard to interpret?? and to be complicated it is easier to be guess??
maybe i should be a little more complicated.. hahahaha~ =) well at least, some people dont need to guess me so hard.. xD
but then, i need some teaching to be complicated~ =)
Monday, March 12, 2012
relationship
yes,im back to my own blog, after updating other people blog for the past 2 weeks... =(
and it seems like im not coming back with the usual jumpy mood i have... neither coming back with nice topic to discuss with..
i am back..with full of sadness and emoness and depressive and just let me be childish for a moment throwing tantrum here ....
am i being over emotional recently?? i know that recently i had been in not so smooth mood...
someone once said that to listen to what other people have to say is what the reflection of others to us.. im picking it up, and i am listening to it.. but am i being in the fault for being over emotional on that certain issue??
to do nothing wrong, to get a cold reaction, to be ignored.. and to be outcast like i had done something bad.. to had others thinking i am wrong, to had others blame me, to some extent i think i did something wrong... to hold it inside, to calm myself down quietly in my heart, and then to almost bust, to break down and to cried...
then a msg sent...not even verbally...
to go thru such emotional trauma... am i being wrong for ignoring her?? am i being egoistic enough for not taking the initial step to say HI??
dont i deserved a rights to get angry? dont i deserved a right to say no, bt i cant accept the whole scene??
u might be asking, why am i caring all those words?? why i let myself to be hurt?? i can just ignore what those people had to say...
i might be stupid enough to think, even housemate, it should be someone to close enough to call close friends..
i rather to believe what they have to say even most of the times it is a joke than to stop believing them...
to count ..i never cried once in the 2 years of my form 6, cried once when im hosteller (for 2 years), and to cry numerous times in my 2 years stay in this house..
why is it so hard to stay together??
i think i had been very straight forward, very simple minded to an extent, an absent mind...
am i that hard to mingle around ?? is it a problem of i alone or was it others??
is it hard to treasure a friend?? i tried to ignore bt not till they say they could be someone i could be counting on..
i have no idea if they had a motive themselves...bt to me, to be staying together could be a fate.. to be together as friend, there is nothing to be calculative on...
i might be thinking too much and to put myself in a bad state...
but everytime something went wrong, i couldnt help bt to notice the bad look....and couldnt help bt to think it could be my problem.. and the sentence if only i dont...
why is relationship between human beings could be so hard to understand... why people would like to present themselves in the most complicated form ever??
am i being naive on this world..or i am just plain stupid...
oh well, the word naive means stupid....
can i count on this friendship to continue???
what am i believing now, will it gradually fading away??? after all this, am i still the person i used to be??
and it seems like im not coming back with the usual jumpy mood i have... neither coming back with nice topic to discuss with..
i am back..with full of sadness and emoness and depressive and just let me be childish for a moment throwing tantrum here ....
am i being over emotional recently?? i know that recently i had been in not so smooth mood...
someone once said that to listen to what other people have to say is what the reflection of others to us.. im picking it up, and i am listening to it.. but am i being in the fault for being over emotional on that certain issue??
to do nothing wrong, to get a cold reaction, to be ignored.. and to be outcast like i had done something bad.. to had others thinking i am wrong, to had others blame me, to some extent i think i did something wrong... to hold it inside, to calm myself down quietly in my heart, and then to almost bust, to break down and to cried...
then a msg sent...not even verbally...
to go thru such emotional trauma... am i being wrong for ignoring her?? am i being egoistic enough for not taking the initial step to say HI??
dont i deserved a rights to get angry? dont i deserved a right to say no, bt i cant accept the whole scene??
u might be asking, why am i caring all those words?? why i let myself to be hurt?? i can just ignore what those people had to say...
i might be stupid enough to think, even housemate, it should be someone to close enough to call close friends..
i rather to believe what they have to say even most of the times it is a joke than to stop believing them...
to count ..i never cried once in the 2 years of my form 6, cried once when im hosteller (for 2 years), and to cry numerous times in my 2 years stay in this house..
why is it so hard to stay together??
i think i had been very straight forward, very simple minded to an extent, an absent mind...
am i that hard to mingle around ?? is it a problem of i alone or was it others??
is it hard to treasure a friend?? i tried to ignore bt not till they say they could be someone i could be counting on..
i have no idea if they had a motive themselves...bt to me, to be staying together could be a fate.. to be together as friend, there is nothing to be calculative on...
i might be thinking too much and to put myself in a bad state...
but everytime something went wrong, i couldnt help bt to notice the bad look....and couldnt help bt to think it could be my problem.. and the sentence if only i dont...
why is relationship between human beings could be so hard to understand... why people would like to present themselves in the most complicated form ever??
am i being naive on this world..or i am just plain stupid...
oh well, the word naive means stupid....
can i count on this friendship to continue???
what am i believing now, will it gradually fading away??? after all this, am i still the person i used to be??
Friday, March 2, 2012
responsibility
old man says great power comes with great responsibility.
i never used to understand what it takes to be the man with great power... =) im not saying those superpowers like superman, power rangers, batman or etc...
im a 4th year medical student..attending clinical years in hospital....another year and i will be finishing my medical life and starting my life as a doctor.. i remember when i first enter medical school i am just a little girl walking into the life of adulthood.. what it takes to be hospital?? what is doctor? what will be our life sound like... is just me and patient.. never did i know the magical bond between doctors and patient till i enter my clinical years...
the first time i walk into the hospital, everything look amazing... for someone who dont really exposed to everything related to medical, it does look amazing... then here goes the 36 hours of walking, limited time of sleeping and unorganized time of break.... everything becomes DARK!!! why am i picking medic?? why am i here?? why i want to be a doctor...
we study our ass off... we work our butt away... exposed to all kind of injury, facing all types of patient, having stress imposed on us, and lost the social life we used to have.. and yet our pay is just the same like those 9am to 5pm office worker.. and probably lower than the businessman... worst of all, the society thought we earn like crazy, forcing money out from all patient we treat, and we are those people who NEED to be a know-it-all... anyone who thinks we earn a lot, please re-do your survey because we definitely DONT.... slowly, life doesnt seems to be good... even my mum says only stupid people choose to be doctor... =)
i kinda agree though... we dont have the college life one would have... things we need to know, we need to know for life.. looking at some of my friends who had their holiday long enough to go for a backpack in europe, i cant deny how jealous i am... they can get pass their exams just by flipping their notes last minute.. they can choose to ignore some certain facts they think it is hard... life goes by their way...what we had then?? we work more hours than others, we study more than others.. even the slightest information, it needs to be in our mind... we cant joke around, we cant fool around..
even the phrase "i think it could be..." is a taboo in our life.. we need to be fast, we need to be certain and top of all, despite the fast and certain, we need to be accurate.. every decision made, we need to be answerable to not only ourself, bt to the patient.. any decision either being late or wrong, it would cost the life of the patient...
we exposed to the greatest risk of having gastric perforation, we had the highest risk of being suicidal, we had cancer easier than anyone in this world, we faced any infection more than anyone.. if there is an outbreak, we were at the first line... is this job good enough??? you can choose to walk away from people with hepatitis B, you can walk away from people with HIV.. we dont discriminate, we dont stereotype... they had the same rights in the eyes of medicine... did i ever talk about a houseman who got hepatitis C while giving injection to a patient?? he accidentally prick himself after withdrawing blood from patient... accident shouldnt happen... but then, how can we prevent accident?? accident happen without warning...
we tried the best to treat a person, and it has only 2 consequence of either "THANK YOU" or "IT'S ALL YOUR FAULT, I WILL GONNA SUE YOU!!"
so what is the fun of being a doctor???
someone ask me before, why did i choose medic?? life isnt easy for us.. our life isnt easy, our pay isnt high, our risk is high, our work time is longer than anyone else, and we paid a high tuition fees in university...
what i say, it's only passion that can drive one thru their life as a doctor... patient would be the reason why i stay as a doctor... if you are a person who loves to save other people life, if you are the person who willing to put other's life before yours..then yes, pick medicine.. if not, please dont because at the end, u will have to give up everything... if u ask me what would be the biggest repay of being a doctor, it would the smile, the happiness, the gratitude and a sentence from patient... THANK YOU!!
to look at the patient and to tell them "you are fine now" "u can be discharged" the happiness in patient when they smile to you... that is the best scene u will never forget... when they see you and greet you "doctor, good morning" or "thank you doctor" it is just so pure and sincere... little kids look at you feeling amazed...adults look at you feeling respect... that is the repay for a doctor and top of all, this is what makes all the tears and sweats worth while...
the heavy responsibility of a doctor.... the tears and sweats.... it all comes down to one - the gratitude of patient... with only this, it makes us alive and strong... and keep us going~~ patient had a wish when it comes to doctors which is to get heal... and we had only one wish to them is to fulfill it and make them healed... as a fairy godmother of theirs, their smile is what we want~ =)
i never used to understand what it takes to be the man with great power... =) im not saying those superpowers like superman, power rangers, batman or etc...
im a 4th year medical student..attending clinical years in hospital....another year and i will be finishing my medical life and starting my life as a doctor.. i remember when i first enter medical school i am just a little girl walking into the life of adulthood.. what it takes to be hospital?? what is doctor? what will be our life sound like... is just me and patient.. never did i know the magical bond between doctors and patient till i enter my clinical years...
the first time i walk into the hospital, everything look amazing... for someone who dont really exposed to everything related to medical, it does look amazing... then here goes the 36 hours of walking, limited time of sleeping and unorganized time of break.... everything becomes DARK!!! why am i picking medic?? why am i here?? why i want to be a doctor...
we study our ass off... we work our butt away... exposed to all kind of injury, facing all types of patient, having stress imposed on us, and lost the social life we used to have.. and yet our pay is just the same like those 9am to 5pm office worker.. and probably lower than the businessman... worst of all, the society thought we earn like crazy, forcing money out from all patient we treat, and we are those people who NEED to be a know-it-all... anyone who thinks we earn a lot, please re-do your survey because we definitely DONT.... slowly, life doesnt seems to be good... even my mum says only stupid people choose to be doctor... =)
i kinda agree though... we dont have the college life one would have... things we need to know, we need to know for life.. looking at some of my friends who had their holiday long enough to go for a backpack in europe, i cant deny how jealous i am... they can get pass their exams just by flipping their notes last minute.. they can choose to ignore some certain facts they think it is hard... life goes by their way...what we had then?? we work more hours than others, we study more than others.. even the slightest information, it needs to be in our mind... we cant joke around, we cant fool around..
even the phrase "i think it could be..." is a taboo in our life.. we need to be fast, we need to be certain and top of all, despite the fast and certain, we need to be accurate.. every decision made, we need to be answerable to not only ourself, bt to the patient.. any decision either being late or wrong, it would cost the life of the patient...
we exposed to the greatest risk of having gastric perforation, we had the highest risk of being suicidal, we had cancer easier than anyone in this world, we faced any infection more than anyone.. if there is an outbreak, we were at the first line... is this job good enough??? you can choose to walk away from people with hepatitis B, you can walk away from people with HIV.. we dont discriminate, we dont stereotype... they had the same rights in the eyes of medicine... did i ever talk about a houseman who got hepatitis C while giving injection to a patient?? he accidentally prick himself after withdrawing blood from patient... accident shouldnt happen... but then, how can we prevent accident?? accident happen without warning...
we tried the best to treat a person, and it has only 2 consequence of either "THANK YOU" or "IT'S ALL YOUR FAULT, I WILL GONNA SUE YOU!!"
so what is the fun of being a doctor???
someone ask me before, why did i choose medic?? life isnt easy for us.. our life isnt easy, our pay isnt high, our risk is high, our work time is longer than anyone else, and we paid a high tuition fees in university...
what i say, it's only passion that can drive one thru their life as a doctor... patient would be the reason why i stay as a doctor... if you are a person who loves to save other people life, if you are the person who willing to put other's life before yours..then yes, pick medicine.. if not, please dont because at the end, u will have to give up everything... if u ask me what would be the biggest repay of being a doctor, it would the smile, the happiness, the gratitude and a sentence from patient... THANK YOU!!
to look at the patient and to tell them "you are fine now" "u can be discharged" the happiness in patient when they smile to you... that is the best scene u will never forget... when they see you and greet you "doctor, good morning" or "thank you doctor" it is just so pure and sincere... little kids look at you feeling amazed...adults look at you feeling respect... that is the repay for a doctor and top of all, this is what makes all the tears and sweats worth while...
the heavy responsibility of a doctor.... the tears and sweats.... it all comes down to one - the gratitude of patient... with only this, it makes us alive and strong... and keep us going~~ patient had a wish when it comes to doctors which is to get heal... and we had only one wish to them is to fulfill it and make them healed... as a fairy godmother of theirs, their smile is what we want~ =)
Sunday, January 15, 2012
possible?
is it true that blood is thicker than water??
many said that no matter what happen u had your family member behind your back??? is the theory applicable to all types of situation or it is only applicable to some, just like the other life theory???
human, dont them change over certain period of time??? separated and living in other place, looking at the different life, thinking of different theory, and ending up having different mindset and with this, argument tend happen in every way~~
with this, could still family member be together??? living under a same roof??
i had seen people leaving their family member alone in the nursery home, i had seen siblings fighting over the money, i had seen own family member cheating each other, and some even rape their own child...
how could this happen??? if family wasnt the safest people to be around, whoelse??
just like mine, if i dont even care so much about them, leaving them to do what they like so that they could be happy for that particular moment, could it be better???
maybe this way would be better....
a mute never hurt anyone... they just dont~ and im learning this theory~~
a NOMB would be best.. =)
many said that no matter what happen u had your family member behind your back??? is the theory applicable to all types of situation or it is only applicable to some, just like the other life theory???
human, dont them change over certain period of time??? separated and living in other place, looking at the different life, thinking of different theory, and ending up having different mindset and with this, argument tend happen in every way~~
with this, could still family member be together??? living under a same roof??
i had seen people leaving their family member alone in the nursery home, i had seen siblings fighting over the money, i had seen own family member cheating each other, and some even rape their own child...
how could this happen??? if family wasnt the safest people to be around, whoelse??
just like mine, if i dont even care so much about them, leaving them to do what they like so that they could be happy for that particular moment, could it be better???
maybe this way would be better....
a mute never hurt anyone... they just dont~ and im learning this theory~~
a NOMB would be best.. =)
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