soulmate

i always felt that the relationship between 2 homosapiens is magical..

for 2 different person, of different world to come together and be friends, isnt it amazing to know how could both cope with each other??? some people had what we called social loveable and some who hardly get one to talk on..but then, i believe in our life, we will eventually had at least 1 person who we can open up our heart.. =)

i always believe it is not fate that makes one likeable or forever alone.. but it was how one acts toward another..
but then, what it takes for one to be socially acceptable?? am i using the right word??? i might look like a social butterfly to one, and anti-social to another.. if u knew me well, i am a social butterfly~ =D

anyway, what it takes to link 2 person of different DNA, of different behaviour and different opinions together??? i know some had a friend who have everything so similar to themselves and they call it soulmate.. but then soulmate could be of different people with different personality right..

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i dont know bout' urs but here is what i think.. =) no hard feeling but it is always my own personal view.. xD

i believe that not a person in this world is perfect...personality wise or attitude wise.. im nt a person who is so saint or noble either... nobody in this world is so perfect in mentally, physically or socially unless u are self-declared god (that too, isnt perfect)..

for 2 person to come together and be friends, it is always acceptance... acceptance and tolerance and understanding.. why is it this??
like i had said before, nobody in this world is as perfect as they would think they are... =) eventually there will be something that hurts the other.. one man's rose is always another man's thorn.. =) but then to accept who they are instead of changing who they are, to tolerate their attitude by accepting who they are, and to understand them internally instead of externally... gradually, we will adapt to the person.. we have high adaptation skill arent we?? human adapts to their things around them so quick that they dont even realised it.. =)

isnt complaining for who they are, what they did and then to hold on grudges and hatred is something tiring..it well at least exhaust me mentally..
some people ask me before, how can you tolerate your friends for what they had did??

i do..i do get angry for a certain time, but in the time of getting angry, i asked myself back.. is it a fault of a person or it is a fault of 2 way??? if you would ever be friend in the first place, why is it a conflicts that could break off a friendship?? what is the feeling of the 1st time when we had became friend??

here i am talking about close friends not superficial friend.. it has differ.. i admit that not all people i am hanging out around, are my close friends.. well, everyone had friends who are superficial as well as deep~ =)

in that process, understanding starts to take place.. yes, i start to know, so that is what she/he really are... so?? am i forego that friends??
nobody in this world is a saint, that is at least what i believe.... then accept the person for who they are if you are going to hold on the person as your friends...
eventually u will adapt to that person for who they are.. =)

when u accept and adapt, whatever they do, like previously, you wouldnt have hurt that much as the 1st time.. isnt it?? at one point, u would have laugh at their action.. =)
adapt and grow up in the process... this survival skill would have benefit one in any environment that one live in.. at one stage of life, u will have met at least 100 different attitude and character.. are we going to live our life miserably because we couldnt have one person to have open up our mind in that particular place??

or are we going to change the view of it and live with it??? if we keep on going back to past and to hang on to only one person and to think that she/he is the only friend that you could have in your lifetime, what happen if one day that person left your world??? is that mean u gonna be just like the forever alone meme??

people dont walk to your door and knock and say let's be soulmate.. even if there is, but if you would have been so rigid in your feeling and views, i feel, that 2 person wouldnt be close friends...even if they appear to be close, but then to what extend?? if one thing could had rock their relationship, will it end just like that?? and if that happen, what would happen??

to be over calculative and to measure every depth and weight of a friendship, to have motive and to plan out a strategy in making friend and to fake all loveable traits instead of showing the real traits, arent all this tire you out??

i truly believe that if you are a friend to one... they accept you for who you are, not change who you arent. because by changing your own friend, is that person the same person who u first met??? the 1st person who u said HI to??

this is at least what i think...
i am as simple as that...whatever i do, as long as i think it soothe my heart and i think it is right, i would done it... and well of course sincerely..
but could it be in this world today that being so simple is actually complicated in the other's eyes and hard to interpret?? and to be complicated it is easier to be guess??

maybe i should be a little more complicated.. hahahaha~ =) well at least, some people dont need to guess me so hard.. xD
but then, i need some teaching to be complicated~ =)